Parenting is a daunting, challenging, overwhelming and enjoyable experience. This phase in your life makes us extremely responsible and aware of the choices we make, the decision(s) we take whether it be about our body, food, career and lifestyle. Whilst the baby is on its journey into this world, the parents too are excited about its arrival and the changes that will be incurred. Life changes tremendously. You start reading more about food ingredients, baby products, parenting and much more. I believe, the baby teaches parenthood.
With the changing times and fast paced life, parenting ethics are changing. Whichever way you choose, achieving balance is important. Parenting is a life long education and you learn as it evolves. It is an holistic experience in which one is compelled to take an account of every minute facet(s) that was inconceivable before.
What exactly is holistic parenting?
There is no exact measured answer to this question. As mentioned earlier, being a Parent is a process and life long engagement. It is an education that cannot be evaluated and it is never perfect. But the process of learning, being aware and responsible for the choices and its effect(s ) for ourselves, our families, our society and last but not the least our planet. It is embracing an eco-friendly, sustainable and nonaggressive communication. Just to remember, holistic parenting is not judging who did the job better, but it is all about who managed to achieve a better balance in life.
Some very basic and significant values of Holistic parents:
Be well aware and responsible as parents
Holistic approach may differ from conventional choices and that must be in the best interest of the family. Be well read and openly discuss about certain issues like childbirth, breastfeeding, immunization, communication with the baby. Holistic parenting believes in bonding via breastfeeding and co-sleeping whereas some do not.
Be respectful towards others
You are the role model for your child. Holistic parenting is all about educating your child about compassion, love, and empathy.
Involve and integrate all the aspects of living
Eating healthy and wholesome food, exercising are crucial in today’s time. Being calm and non-aggressive teaches valuable lessons to the child.
Teach children about reduce, recycle and reuse
Keep the children away from materialism. There are plenty of advertisements and distractions, but conscious talking to children about its impact on our planet and environment should be on the agenda. The 3Rs are pivotal and will establish a connect with nature and society.
Teach children the value of simple life
A simple life is the only way to peaceful and happy life. It also paves a path to self healing in its own way. Finding happiness in the smallest things is the key.
It reads and sounds easy, but it can be equally challenging. Finding like minded parents and by being together, it surely will make a significant impact. It is always good to know that you are not alone in this journey and there are people who believe in what you believe.
What is never to be forgotten is to not lose the ‘balance’ and enjoy the journey.
