When A Girl Chooses to get married over her career!

Discussion in 'Women' started by Greatest, Jan 30, 2014.

  1. Greatest

    Greatest New Member

    Marriage and career both are extremely important in one's life and at least for a person who is ambitious and determined. Making a successful career is however a commendable thing for a girl while getting married is quite predictable, since in our Indian society a girl is supposed to get married at a certain age and her career might be kept at the stake. Since the birth of the girl the family begins to ponder upon and accumulating the things required for her marriage which is not the crux of this post right now. What I am trying to convey through this post is that every girl has to get married at some point of time but making a wise decision about the career; is what she needs to look at with her utmost sensibility and intelligence. There are many girls who get fascinated with the splendors of marriage and put their career on a stake. They choose to get married first and career becomes secondary for them. In such a condition it is for sure that the girls who take up such a decision at some point of time in life certainly do regret over their past decisions.

    It is a very crucial and important time for the young girls who are studying and pursuing their qualification in order to make a good career, it is good for once that they determinedly choose to put on hold the other issues rather than pausing their education. If they are being forced by their families and parents to get married they should in fact counsel their whole family in a cool manner. If the girls choose to devote this time of their life to raising their qualification and education then they will not have to bear any kind of "dependency" (emotional, financial, social, etc.) on their spouse at the later phase of life. Their one "righteous & wise" decision taken at this time will benefit them in a long run which they might ignore or can't perceive right now.
     


  2. shinning

    shinning New Member

    I think one can manage both career and marriage so one should not compromise on leaving marriage or leaving career , but with hiring help ( maid) at hgome can manage work and home both. Also the woman has to prepare her family for some adjustments all have to make to cooperate with her professional and private life in Family
     

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