Love marriage and Arrange marriage

Discussion in 'Women' started by RanJ1t, Feb 9, 2009.

  1. RanJ1t

    RanJ1t New Member

    what do you believe in?
    why would you prefer one over the other?
    please do explain the pros and cons of Love Marriage and Arrange Marriage
     


  2. Aryan

    Aryan New Member

    I agree with both, but i would prefer a arranged marriage for me though it is uncommon in my culture
     
  3. jaz08

    jaz08 New Member

    I don't prefer arranged marriage. For me, marriage is sacred and it is something that I want to share with the one I truly love. It's important because it's I who will live with that person and not anybody else.
     
  4. Michael Roger

    Michael Roger New Member

    Arrange or love marriage both are right.Its not matter that i can do love or arrange marriage but the matter is that is how we love our partner.So both are right.
     
  5. seetumail

    seetumail New Member

    Marriages are just marriages that means bonding between two people.
    the name 'love' or 'arranged' is given by the people. so no second thought that mutual understanding between the two people matters more than anything else
     
  6. adrenalin

    adrenalin New Member

    Does not matter as long as the relationship is tied with profound love from either person. I have seen arranged marriages fail, I have also seen love marriages fail. However, I have never seen a marriage fail that was based upon love, equality and mutual respect.
     
  7. Desi

    Desi New Member

    Both are fine

    I do not think there is any problem in love marriage or arrange marriage..I believe both have their pros and cons and one should be free to do what they actually want! I am opting for love marriage :D
     
  8. Kr1shn4

    Kr1shn4 New Member

    Relevance? Duh :O

    I wonder the relevance of this topic in terms of treating it as a women issue. It equally affects both the genders and not just female's...:rolleyes:
     
  9. kmmatrimony

    kmmatrimony Guest

    All,

    Both are like. but one thing understand your Life whether to necessitate love and like your both parents.. so you will choose without missing your parents and like your marriage life
     
  10. Suryavanshi

    Suryavanshi New Member

    Arrange or love marriage: Not a question at all

    The concern should not be whether we are getting in a bond through an arrange marriage or a love one. It has been said that pairs are made in heaven and we should always pray to get the best one for ourselves of the entire lot. :D
    Presence of love, care, attachment, understanding, respect and faith can efficiently ride any pair throughout all the difficult as well as easier times. Just believe in your love and your partner and enjoy your happy married life. :)

    So, where has this question of arrange or a love marriage come from?
     
  11. nidhisood

    nidhisood New Member

    rather than believing in love or arranged marriages, i believe in love; may it be before or after marriage.
    i have seen love marriages breaking and arranged marriages surviving, so it is really difficult to judge a marriage on the basis of how the partners met.
    the bottom line is- they met.. and they should live their lives happily ever after :) :) :)
     
  12. Tigerr

    Tigerr New Member

    both the types of marriages are good at their own stand. its just the individuals point of perception if he/she chooses to go with any one. love marriage offers more freedom of choice and satisfaction to oneself. so i think if the person is more bound to free will he/she should go with love marriage
     

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