Initial and later years of a marriage !

Discussion in 'Women' started by Rashi, Dec 23, 2009.

  1. Rashi

    Rashi New Member

    Many a time we see that men are more caring and loving during the initial years of marriage.but the point is that why does it happen that the women feels neglected and uncared sometimes in the later years?

    what is your view? when should be the husband most supportive ?
     


  2. adrenalin

    adrenalin New Member

    Is that a personal experience? :D
    Just kiddin'

    Anyways, I have a cousin who lives in US now. Once while talking to her I made the mistake of asking how good is her married life. She went on and on complaining that before marriage "He used to say I Love You a 1000 times everyday. And now, he even does not have the time to say goodbye to me". What, I feel, Women do not understand is that.......if words could be more than simple emotions, pigs would fly in the skies.

    The simple reason that: Your husband comes back straight home after a hard day's work is reason enough to be understood that your husband is supportive of you. Isn't it? We men are not very good at expressing ourselves now, are we?:)
     
  3. LifelongLearning

    LifelongLearning New Member

    Marriage is all about compromise, constant adjustment and understanding. Most women step in to marriage expecting it to be a constant and undying romance. But as the novelty wears off and the husband gets busy with his career and planning for the future, the wife begins to feel neglected especially if she doesn’t have a career of her own or has given it up to take care of her family.

    It is important for a woman to realise this is all a natural phenomenon in any relationship and not because her husband does not love her anymore.
     

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