You stay silent when your mother is treated like shit by your father, You stay silent when your friend takes dowry from his wife's family, You stay silent when your classmates sits at a nukkad whistling 'maal' at passing women saying it is innocent fun, You stay silent when a million women every year in this nation are murdered before birth or their breath dunked in milk before god after it, You don't report the drunkard husband who beat up your maid servant because it is not your business, You stayed silent when your boss hit upon a female colleague and you told her to grin and bear it because it happens everywhere, You sing along with your favourite male stars as they call their 'items' chikni chameli and halkat jawani etc., You did not protest the lower pay that your female colleagues got just because of their sex, You helped your parents arrange a marriage for your sister against her wishes saying she doesn’t know her mind, You stayed silent when in a family discussion a woman’s voice was silenced by the cacophony of male voices, You force a woman to wear burqa in the pretext of sharia law You think feminism is shit and feminist loud mouthed 'bitches' who have not better work to do than cry victim, You applaud as Hindu right wing men barge into a hotel and slap ‘immoral’ women with the intention of ‘reforming’ their ‘maa’ ‘behen’, You stay silent when females in a party are sent away to discuss 'childish' things even as you discuss 'important' things like politics and all in their absence, You stayed silent when your father directly and sarcastically showed your mother that she's lower then men in intelligence time and again, You objected loudly when your girlfriend, wife wanted to put her life and career ahead of yours saying yours was more important, And now suddenly you have become a man because ONE woman was brutally beaten and raped while you conveniently forget the hundreds of women whose psyche you were responsible for brutally beating and raping directly, or indirectly through your inaction... and now you evoke the same 'maa' and 'behen' argument to protect them... Thanks to the serpent of your awakened manhood, that woman in Delhi will perhaps get justice. But what about the millions of other women in the country of different religion, region and sect united by their shared injustice who will perhaps never get justice precisely for the same reason - your manhood? Do you think that this is the bitter truth?
Men can only change if we women start revolting instead of safeguarding them for their acts. No one else will come forward to safeguard the women if they themselves do not protest against the acts that the male of ours society do in order to prove their masculinity. A boy should be taught to respect women since childhood and may be then, the men in our society will change and women will be treated in a better way.
all i believe is its the mother of the family who can bring the revolution and not get supressed by man of rthe house and also teach their children male or female about never doing wrong to opposite sex. SO i think what we teach our children will automatically bring revolutuion in the thinking of the male of India. But its a long process If began Today.
